This followed me to adulthood. I tended to hang around online where my awkwardness wasn't obvious. I still had trouble making friends and had been through hundreds of awkward job interviews. Even though I wanted to do something about what my body and mind was doing, I wasn't sure there was a cure much less a diagnosis. Sometimes, I would be kept up at night simply wondering what was causing my pain. Muscle tics are painful to me, especially in the face and hands. Emotionally, I was constantly hurt that no one would trust me simply because of physical movements that I had absolutely no control over. I felt depressed and suicidal. I felt that I would never have close relationships with real people.
Until a doctor casually mentioned that I might have Tourette's, I was lost. I had wrongly assumed that my tics were caused by depression and anxiety and that it was all in my head. After research, I realized that it was likely the other way around and that a lot of my anxiety and depression came from my experiences living with TS. At first, it was hard to admit that something I had very little control over was affecting my life in such a profound way. Over time, with help, I learned to accept TS for what it is and not to be ashamed by it.
I still feel awkward most days but I have learned that I am very open to people simply asking me about my tics and random odd noises. I would rather engage in a conversation than be stared at and whispered about. It really is OK to ask! It is therapeutic for me to engage with people and hopefully share some information that they didn't know. If you suffer from TS, know that you are not alone. It is embarrassing at times, but you shouldn't feel shame over it. I want to engage with you too. I want to talk with you and share similar experiences and explore different ones. I want you to know about my experiences. It is through shared knowledge that we learn and grow. Maybe you aren't at the sharing stage yet and that is OK. It took me a very long time to be comfortable in my own skin. TS may be a monster sometimes but it's one that can be put in it's place.